Thursday, December 07, 2006

Gearing up to go

I'm on the mend and feeling like Saturday will be a good day to start the training runs. Also, last night Matt, my roommate on my team, and I went to Wasatch Running Company for their team night and geared up for the training. The service there was great and they got into the cancer research battle by giving us a nice discount. We got new shoes and some running tights. Don't worry ladies, I'll still wear shorts over the tights.

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Bump in the road.

Wouldn't you know it? I got sick just as I started the serious training. Lovely. Hopefully I'll be feeling a bit better on Saturday for the first group training run.

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Gentlemen, start your training!

On Thanksgiving morning, I ran the Orem City International Thanksgiving Day 4k to officially begin my training. It was a fun experience. I started out way too fast for me (6:43 for the first mile) and then settled down to a comfortable pace. I must have settled way down, because I ended up with a 7:32 average for the race. Official results can be seen here. Granted, that's less than a sixth of the marathon, but for just beginning my training, I'm happy with the results. Today, I did a 4.5 mile training run with a nice long hill in the middle. Thus begins the training. Also, I've had some very generous early donars to the cause. Check out the fundraising page here: http://www.active.com/donate/huntsman07/jcox116.

Friday, November 17, 2006

Dig Deep for Doug

In mid-August, my Father was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer: carcinoma of unknown primary. He has been receiving treatment at the Huntsman Cancer satellite office in Provo since then. As a family, we have seen many people rally around him to offer support and faith. I have decided to run the SLC Marathon and raise money for Huntsman Cancer Research in honor of him and his marathon against cancer. I have set a goal to raise $1,000 for cancer research. I would like to invite you to be a part of this effort by contributing to Huntsman Cancer research. If you would like to contribute, I suggest just one dollar for every mile of the marathon ($26.20), but feel free to contribute however much you are able. Just go to the fundraising page: http://www.active.com/donate/huntsman07/jcox116 and contribute however much you would like.

Also, I will be tracking my training here on my blog, and you are welcome to visit any time to see how it is going, or check back on the fundraising page for updates on the progress of the fundraising efforts.

Thank you for your support and friendship.

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Ready, set.....
Don't blind yourselves. :)

Thursday, October 05, 2006

rumors

The rumors are true. I shaved my head. By popular demand (one person is popular enough :) I will begin updating my blog again. Unfortunately my new narsissistic roommate messed up our wireless connection at the apartment and won't admit it. I'm forced to use the public library's connection, which is slow, and means I have to go to the library instead of updating from my apartment. So until that gets fixed, I can't post pics of my head, but hopefully it will be fixed soon. Till then, you can immagine what I look like. One person at work said I looked like Ghandi. Ciao.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Great day for adventure

Practiced setting protection on a climb up Little Cottonwood. Ran/hiked up Cascade Saddle and back. The trail was a lot steeper than I remembered, and the last half mile was in snow at a fifty degree angle, which slowed me down quite a bit since running shoes don't do too well cutting steps. It felt good. 5,800 ft. to 9,500 in five miles and two hours. It really would have taken probably 1.5 hours if the snow wasn't there. I even found a stick to use as an ice ax for the traverses across the snow and the glissades down. It only took 40-something minutes to run down. Why do I enjoy this so much? I enjoy pushing myself, challenging myself, and seeing what I can do.

Saturday, June 03, 2006

Busy day

It's 11:40 a.m. I've already run/hiked up to the meadow below Squaw Peak, and run down, been to the stake breakfast, got a girl's number, confirmed my date for tonight, and renewed acquainance with another great girl. Not a bad start to the day. We'll see how the rest of it goes.

Thursday, June 01, 2006

Everest Survival

Check out this story of survival: everest.net

Crazy stuff happens in the mountains. We don't understand everything the body experiences up there. I'm sure there will be a book or article written about this, but this dispatch has the facts, if there is any such thing. It sounds like everyone was doing the best they could with the knowledge they had. I don't think anyone would have left him for dead if they thought there was a chance to save him without excessive threat to themselves.

Wednesday, May 31, 2006

Karma

Wouldn't you know it? The girl I thought I might have a chance of being interested in, the one I met last week in institue, the one who seemed somewhat interested in me, didn't show up to Institute tonight. I need to stop stepping on those ants and worms.

Friday, May 26, 2006

A new day

dissillusionment has set in just a bit. Last night, the comment spammer hit me. It wasn't too bad, but annoying enough that I had to turn on the word verification. Sorry to those who enjoyed unfettered access to this point. But please don't let it keep you from commenting. Also, it's nice to hear over and over again that comment spammer liked my color scheme and illustrations. :)

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

The Adventure Continues

I can climb and ski in 4 hours, 3000 verticle feet on a slope over 50 degrees, but when I go to find a woman to do something in the evening, no one is home. It's like the planets align in my favor on everything else, just to make up for my bad karma with women (and dissertation).

Actually, when the women weren't home, I walked towards the park to see if anyone was there, and ran into another woman from the ward that I am mildly interested in. I struck up a conversation with her, and somehow I noticed for the first time that she had a ring on her wedding finger.

Oops. Good thing I didn't ask her out. It was the only ring on both her hands, so it can only be an engagement ring or a deliberate attempt to drive the boys away. Either way, I ended up being a spectator for the rest of the night, watching stupid tv shows for way too long.

A curse upon my lazy bones!

Tuesday, May 23, 2006

here's a good pic to give you a feel for what the climb was like. I wish I knew how to put videos on here. We have some good ones.
This is the route up and down Mt. Superior. The route in blue is up, the route in red is down. The point where they connect is the top :)

Monday, May 22, 2006

Big one.

happy 100th post! Can you believe? I celebrated it today by getting up at 3:40 am, and climbing Mount Superior with Jon Bischoff and his friend Darrin. At the top it was hailing and blowing something fierce. I hid on the lee side of the peak while I put on my ski boots that I had hauled up there with my skis, and then I skiied off the top of the peak. I skiied the mountain except about 100 verticle feet of cliff that I had to downclimb. I did that in my ski boots, which wasn't really too fun on wet rock. The skiing wasn't the best I had ever done, either. Probably a third of my turns felt good. The rest were awkward jump turns since my legs were beat from the climb, and the slope was around 50 degrees. It was a great time. I'll try to get a pic up tomorrow with route up and down mapped out. Wish you were all there to see it. The end.

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Airing the dirty laundry...so to speak

OWW asked about our most embarrassing moments. I am more than happy to join in, because, for me, they are a joy. I love embarrassing moments in my life. Like when I trip on the stairs, even as I’m looking around to see who saw, I am also busting up because I think it’s hilarious. It seriously makes my day. So this one is so much better than tripping on the stairs, it has given me years of enjoyable memories…kind of like the June roses in December.

A couple years ago, or maybe just last year, I don’t remember exactly when, my brother earned his BSA Eagle award and had an Eagle Court where he was presented with the award. It’s customary in my family for extended family to come and support the eagle recipient. Afterward, everyone gathers in the multi-purpose room of the church for socializing and refreshments. Everything went well and we were all mingling in the multipurpose room when I heard some music playing on the cd player. Evidently, my parents had put on some music to match the occasion. Then, like destiny, I suddenly saw my cousin Mark, who has written some music for such occasions.

It’s at this point that I have a brilliant idea. I walk up to Mark and in a very loud voice, I say, “Mark, where’s your music? We need to put it on instead of this TRASH that’s on right now!”

Mark looks at me and says, “This IS my song.”

LAWL.

Monday, May 15, 2006

Money doesn't buy happiness

Yeah. Not like I have a lot. But I had enough to pick up an iPod Nano the other day. Now it's too small for me. I want to have all my songs at my fingertips at all times. I'm not satisfied with the approximately 715 songs it holds. It turns out I have 200% more music than that. Oops. Shouldn't I have done the math first? 715 songs is a measly 56 CDs. I have about 150. Who knew? How am I ever supposed to pick out which songs I want to have on the iPod and which ones I don't? Sure, Tori Amos it out, but what about all the others? I am so greedy and piggish. I'm not satisfied with being one of the richest people in the world. I have to have more? I am so American. Why did I buy the thing in the first place? Talk about buyer's remorse.

Walking to the library today with the distinctive white earbuds in, I thought I was so cool. Turns out I'm a chump. I'm not buying anything anymore. No more money spent. Nope. I'll just live off my roomates until I get kicked out for not paying rent. Then I'll just park my car at a different church each night and sleep in a tent up the canyon. I'll live out of trash bins and people in my ward who invite me over for dinner. I'll shower at the RB. I'm done being a slave to economics and fashion. Good buy. Oops. I mean: Goodbye.

Sunday, May 14, 2006

I'm back.

So, I worked hard on my project this weekend and finished the analyses that have been haunting my life for months. I also got half of the next project done. In celebration, I bought an iPod Nano.

And I subsequently stayed up until 2:30 am putting classical music on it. So much for my healthy lifestyle. Hopefully, my foray back into blogging won't be as much of a detriment to my life.

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Fun Stuff!

Check this out! It's a video of a DEA agent shooting himself in the foot while giving a grade school assembly. Awesome!

I know that I'm not original here in linking to this, but it's fun just the same. And yes, I heard about it on WWDTM.

Saturday, April 15, 2006

Apology :)

Sorry it's been a while. My computer wigged out for a few days, and I got behind on some work. Anyway, I'm still behind so I need to keep this short. But I just wanted to bring up one issue.

Recently there has been a lot of publicity about ethanol for car fuel. This ethanol is made from corn. Yesterday, on TOTN, I heard that it takes just about as much petroleum to make the ethanol as is replaced by the power of the ethanol made. Is that outrageous or what?

Alledgedly, the whole reason they are marketing this now is that the government subsidizes farmers to grow three or four times the amount of corn we need in the country, so every year there are huge amounts of corn that are wasted. Additonally, the huge amounts of corn produced take huge amounts of chemical fertilizers, especially nitrogen compounds, that are washed off in large amounts when it rains, run down into the rivers, kill all the life in the rivers, make the water unsafe to drink, and eventually wash down into the Gulf of Mexico where it has created an area the size of New Jersey covered with algae blooms. This area of algae takes away all the oxygen from the water and no other life can exist there.

So when you hear the slogan "live green, go yellow," know that this is a catchy phrase that is a lie, and is really supporting a whole cascade of problems that is quickly tearing our planet apart.

It would be better to just use the petroleum. But even better would be to use ethanol made from a certain type of grass that is perennial and doesn't need any fertilizer, thus, it is clean and healthy for all involved and is renewable, since it grows back every year. Crazy.

Monday, April 10, 2006

Frustration

I've been looking at iTunes, and trying to figure out how to subscribe to stuff. From all I can tell, they are trying to charge two bucks for each tv show you download. That seems like a terrible rip off to me. You can watch them for free on TV. And you can record them off TV. So I guess you're paying for the convenience of watching it whenever you want. Two bucks doesn't seem so bad there. I just don't want to pay it.

Other frustrations:

The dates this weekend were pretty lame. C____ is a good girl, but way to tightly wound for me. I'm tight enough. I need someone who is more calm than me. But not dead weight.

Which is what E____ seemed like on Saturday. I can only keep up a one-way conversation for so long. I like to laugh at my jokes, but I prefer to laugh at my jokes along with my date, not with my date blankly staring at me. Luckily, she’s going out of town for the next two weekends. Hopefully she will have forgotten all about me by the time she gets back. I want it to hurt the least amount possible when I don’t call her again.

Finally, I learned this morning that my fantasy basketball team couldn’t pull off the upset I was working feverishly for. I lost the second round playoff game against the number one seeded team by two steals. Two measly steals! If stupid Wally Scerbiackeklsfjlskdffiak had played yesterday, I probably would have won. That makes me angry. Especially because I had to work the waiver wire all week long, rotating out twenty different subs to get as many games as possible, while my opponent only made one trade all week long. Arrrrgggg!

I’m frustrated.

Friday, April 07, 2006

Once more into the gap, my friends!

In about an hour, I pick up C_____ to take her out to dinner for her birthday. I ran into her a couple days ago when I was picking up my bass bow from the HFAC. She accompanied me for master class, so I thought it would be nice to pay her. She's a cool girl, but I'm pretty hesitant since she was B____'s roomated way back when we dated. We'll see how tonight goes.

I have a date set up with E____ tomorrow. This is a blind date my mum set me up on. She met E____'s parents, they got talking, "I have a single son..." "We have a single daughter..." and the rest is history. Art history that is, which is what she graduated in. She is working now as a curator of an art museam, so that's pretty interesting. I talked with her a couple days ago, and in getting to know each other, she told me that she liked to do just about anything. In my mind, I thought, "well, she's either really cool (like me :), or she is desperate (also like me :). Either way, it should be fun. We'll double with my roommates, get some take out, and hike it up into the mountains to eat it. That is, we'll do that if she returns my call and tells me where to pick her up tomorrow.

Also, _e____ invited me to go down to the Grand Canyon next weekend with her and a group of people from her ward. The problem is, they want to leave Saturday and leave for home Monday. That leaves one day, Sunday, to get any sightseeing and exploring in. I don't relish that. I would love to get away and have some fun and see the Grand Canyon, and maybe even meet some new people, but not at the expense of my Sabath. Sorry. Am I wrong in that? Maybe at this point in my life I should be less fastidious about this.

So if everything else seems like a bust, I may track down M____, whom I met a few weeks ago, and ask her out. It's worth a shot anyway.

Thursday, April 06, 2006

Sleepy Time

Josie, one of my most loyal readers commented about how difficult it is to feel rested and stay awake.

It's no secret that I fall asleep any time, any place. I sleep in class. I sleep in church. I sleep in the Temple. I sleep when driving. I sleep while doing assessments. As you might have guessed, this habbit is not exactly helpful, and can be downright unethical or even dangerous.

Some have wondered if I am Narcoleptic. I've experimented a lot through my life and habits, and have come to some conclusions about my body, it's sleep needs, and my psychological well-being. So, since Josie asked about it, I will post for all to see what my vast experience with sleep has taught me.

It's actually pretty simple.

I've discovered that when I get enough sleep, I feel wonderful. I'm extremely happy and satisfied with life; I feel very strong, healthy, energetic, and excited; and I've noticed that I can even think more quickly and easily. Plus, I can stay awake during all the activities listed above.

So, now that I've provided the carrot, what's the catch?

The plan is, I have to go to bed before 10:00 every night and get a consistent eight hours of sleep every night, and do this for a week and a half, and then I begin to feel all the things listed above.

So the benefits are great. The problem is doing it. I've done better in the past, but I am getting to the point here again that I am going to make a committment to do it again. That's the plan anyway.

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Hiatus

Trying to get to bed early has stifled my blogativity. I don’t view my experiences through blogworthiness filters anymore. You might say I’m blogged down.

So here’s the quick update to catch you up on the days gone. A_____ did call Friday night and we went climbing. Conversation was still forced. I was not inspired in my climbing, and neither was she. At the end, she decided not to get something to eat and just had me take her straight to her place where we parted at the doorstep with little said and nothing done.

Saturday and Sunday were spent with the family in SLC going to General Conference. That was a good trip with lots of laughs with the family including the april fools fair exchanging my ties for a fish.

We also visited a restaurant called Himalayan Kitchen. I recommend it to anyone looking for something a little different. It has traditional Indian fare, but also some Nepalese food. It was a mix of Indian and Chinese cuisine that I was surprised at. I don’t know why it never occurred to me that all the displaced Tibetans spilling into Nepal for the last two thousand years would influence the culture and food. It’s nice to learn something new once in a while. 73 E 400 S SLC if you ever want to go.

Monday was back to work as usual. Or back to napping as usual. For some reason I have been extremely tired for the last few weeks. It didn’t help to stay up till midnight last night and get up at 5:30 to run this morning.

So there you have it. If you slogged through reading this, then kudos. If not, I don’t blame you.
I just needed to get the writer’s blogck worked out.

Friday, March 31, 2006

Tepid

I’m waiting for A_____ to get off work and call. We’re going climbing. I haven’t been in a while. Evidently, she climbs like a spider. And she has a quarry membership. How cool (and inexpensive for me) is that?

I used to take women climbing all the time on dates. It was fun, for the most part. But then I realized that I was spending a ton of money on a lot of women who didn’t really enjoy the activity. So I decided that as long as I was going to spend that money, I was going to spend it on an activity that she enjoyed as well, not just me.

Which brings up the potentially biggest problem in my mind with my whole life style. 9 years of approximately 1.5 dates per week at a conservative estimate of $20/date….

Yeah. I’m not a numbers person, but I think that may be a significant figure. Hope it has paid off in some immaterial way….

But back to the topic of the title of this entry: I am not enamored with A_______. I’m feeling kind of ambivalent. I guess that’s what dating is for. Give it enough time, and I can see where my feelings go. It’s an expensive experiment, with more than just monetary costs.

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Event Horizon

In support of OWW, I am reporting on the goal I made to get to bed before ten o'clock on the weekdays this week. Last night I had a bit of freetime, so I started watching TV as I ate a snack. That, of course is a dangerous thing for me to do. The TV is like a black hole that swallows my life if I get past the event horizon. It took away most of my adolescence. I've been able to break free periodically, but often have moments, hours, days of relapse. So I should have known that by turning on the TV last night I was going to have difficulty reaching my goal. Sure enough, at 9:35, I realized that I was still sitting on my duff, not preparing for bed like I would need to. With herculean effort, I tore myself away from the stupid fantasy show I was hypnotized by, and conqured my demon for one more day. I made it to bed at 9:59! Yeah. Just barely. Tonight should be better, since I have institute until 8:30 or later. No chance to be drawn in by the overpowering gravity of the black hole of mediocre TV.

Monday, March 27, 2006

Embarrassment

I went to my JoJoba's FHE tonight at her Bishop’s request. He wanted me to talk to a woman in the ward from Bulgaria. I guess it was supposed to be a fellowshipping thing. I met Teodora and talked to her for a while, and then guy got up on stage and asked for everyone's attention. He called his girlfriend of two months up on stage and started playing the painfully inept song he obviously wrote for her. I was immediately embarrassed for him. I could see the proposal coming from a mile away, and a few thoughts immediately came to mind.

1. He obviously doesn’t understand women, or he wouldn’t be making a spectacle of the proposal in front of the whole ward.
2. He evidently doesn’t realize that his song is excruciatingly awkward, as is his playing.
3. He probably doesn’t realize that she will be crying herself to sleep tonight because of the botched job he’s done at this once-in-a-lifetime-dreamed-for moment.

Five minutes later, he is still clumsily plucking away at the guitar, and strumming spasmodically the verses, as he sings about some hypothetical guy wondering if he is in love with some hypothetical girl, and I’m thinking:

1. Does he think anyone doesn’t know he’s singing about himself and his girlfriend?
2. Does he realize that she saw it coming the minute he called her up there, and she has been flushed and embarrassed, staring at the wall for the last five minutes hoping that he will stop singing already and get on with the ghastly thing since he has decided to massacre such a potentially beautiful moment?
3. I’m sure glad I never played the awfully similar love songs I have written for girlfriends to an audience of more than one.

A few minutes later, he finally gets to the part of the song where he cleverly reveals that he was singing about himself and his feelings for her all along. Shocker. Who knew? At this point Teodora leans over to me and says:

1. This must be so shameful to her.
2. I would never want my fiancé to do this to me.

And the woman next to us says, “If I were her, I would say no.”

Finally, in slow motion, he finishes the song, goes to his guitar case and gets out a ring. He then tells her that he doesn’t have a speech prepared, or any special words but…..blaah blaah blaah….she says yes and hugs him, everyone claps, and then (this is the very best part) they get off the stage and walk away from each other! Holy Hannah! Do they even care about each other at all? That is just incomprehensible to me.

The whole scene really was like a very long boring nightmare. And the worst part of it is that despite the awfulness of it all, he will be married in a short time,

and I will still be single.

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Anticlimax

Looks like I'm batting .500. Kind of....

I waited until just before time for the bass recital yesterday for C_____ to call. She never did. I assumed, of course that this meant she was still in her test. So I called just to make sure. Nope. She hadn't even started taking the test. Looks like I was wrong about her interest.

But then, that's nothing new apparently. It seems I have been wrong about L_____, J______, and C______ in the last week. It's always good to have a reality check once in a while. I think my ego was getting a little too large.

But as large as my ego was, and as small as it has shrunken to, I still met A____ at the HFAC to go to a play. She actually showed up. That was nice. We went to the play and I tried to make conversation with her. It was a little dull and forced. She appeared to have trouble looking at me. She didn't really ask me anything about myself. She appeared to enjoy talking with her friends who were there more than trying to get to know me.

Of course, there are numerous possible explinations for these behaviors. I would put money on her being a little shy. Or maybe it was the pustule spewing forth green gobs from my chin.

What do you think. Should I have plastic surgery?

Anyway, she seemed to loosen up a little after the play when we went to the resturant. But there didn't seem to be much interest there on either end. She does like to climb, so I may call her in a few weeks to see if she wants to go climbing. The problem is that there is no excitement there, even as I say that.

Which takes me back to the running analogy. There is no race right now that I know about that I can enter to even go all out. The only one was L______, and I was disqualified right out of the gate. Bummer.

I need to find another race to run. Hopefully an exotic one.

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Running

I ran the Rex Lee Run 5k with JoJoba and her roommate this morning. They did a good job. They ran the whole way. I stayed with them the whole time. I always wonder how fast I can run, but I only sign up for races when I have people to run with. I would rather run with them and keep them company than go all out. Which is fun in its own way, but to some extent doesn't make much sense. I can always do training runs with people. Maybe I'm just afraid of how bad I would do if I actually tried in a race.

I wonder if that goes for my dating life too. There are plenty of women out there that I can keep up with. Do I go out with them to prove to myself that I feel like I can reach higher afterward? Am I afraid to go all out and try for the biggest goals because I don't know if I can do it? Part of me wonders if that's the case. The other part says, "no."

Actually, L____ is a good example of me going for it. I've gone for it quite a bit. I've always crashed and burned sooner or later, but at least I've gone for it.

Maybe someday I'll sign up for a race just to go all out and see what I can do.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Awesome!



I wish I had read this five hours ago: BCACL Team on Kilimanjaro

I would have made my students in my Psych Testing and Measurement Class read and discuss it. So many people look at a diagonsis of disability and make judgements limiting the possibilities for others. This story is just one more indication that we can never know what someone can or cannot do.

Don't ever judge or limit someone else by the way you act around them. Instead, why not help them? I loved this quote from the article:

"Whilst many 'healthy' climbers reportedly perform expeditions to raise awareness for different charities, the BCACL team members needed no one else to delegate on, in order to reach the top of Africa. They climbed the peak themselves, thus proving they're not a subject of charity, but of admiration....these climbers took values of collaboration up to the very summit. Lack of such convictions have made much more experienced climbers, busy fighting each other and feeding their egos, to fail in their goals much too often."

That's so true.

Three's Company

I ran into C____ today. I asked her to go to the bass recital of my friend Regan on Saturday during the day. She said she had to take a test, but if she got done in time, then she could go. I'm pretty positive she'll finish her test on time. So that's a go. I think I'll keep it at only two dates on Saturday.

J____ called me last night and invited me over to watch some of Gilmore Girls. She said it would help me understand her and her roommates better. I went over and the show was full of lots of interesting stuff. Girls kissing girls, raves, scantily clad women and men doing lots of interesting stuff, etc. Up until that point, I thought I understood them pretty well. So when I saw all that, I was a little confused. What does she want me to understand about them?

I actually commented in a somewhat joking manner about what the show was portraying, and her roommate became all defensive and disinvited me from ever coming over to watch the show again. Funny stuff.

Yep. It definitely helped me understand her and her roommates a little more.

Fascinating.

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Choose Your Own Adventure

Who doesn't believe that the decision to invade Iraq was a poor one? I'm interested in their reasoning. President Bush has now announced that it will be up to his successor to decide when and how the troops will come home. Sounds like we are in another quagmire to me. If we leave early, the country will fall into civil war and anarchy, thousands will die, and in the end a strong, charismatic leader will probably brutally take control and we will be left where we started.

If, on the other hand, we stay there and try to put the country back together at the same rate and level of effort we are currently putting into it, anarchy will continue, thousands will die, and we will spend billions in nation-building that may, or may not, show any tangible results. In the end, a future president of the U.S. will decide that enough is enough, and pull out. From here, we go back to the first option.

If on the other hand, we commit ourselves fully to the process and up our level of intervention, we will probably tick off the remaining undecided people, and some of our allies as well, with an increased U.S. military presence, and the insurgency will strengthen. In the end, we will spend billions of dollars more, anarchy will continue, thousands will die, and we will end up spending our resources and finally pulling out, taking us back to option one.

Best case scenario: all the insurgents decide to lay down their weapons and take part in a civil dialogue about the need for tolerance and patience as they work hand in hand for a new government incorporating all three of the major religious viewpoints in the country. Chance that this will happen: 0%

Most realistic best case scenario: we continue at the level of intervention we are at, and the sectarian violence peaks from it's current upward climb, and then slowly decreases as the activities of the newly formed government begin to take more and more effect in peoples lives, and less people believe that violence will change where the country is headed. In this scenario, we still spend billions of dollars, thousands die in the anarchy, and in the end, long years from now, we have a rebuilt, viable Iraqi State that functions through democratic means.

If this last case were to happen, I believe it would take at least twice as long as it already has, and that's a very optimistic view. We're already at three.

I honestly don't believe this will happen. Too many U.S. soldiers do ghastly, dishonorable things, such as the Marines I heard about today that were attacked by a roadside bomb so they went to the three nearest houses and summarilly shot all the men, women, and children inside. 23 defensless Iraqis were killed in cold blood by U.S. soldiers who were mad about being attacked. As long as this goes on, few Iraqis will trust the U.S. to help them build a new country. Plus, most of the Arab world feels very criticized by the U.S., and does not look on our activities with a friendly eye. If you think our media focus on the negative is bad, the Arab press is ten times worse. With this kind of focus on the negative, there's no way people are going to start saying: "Wow, these Americans aren't as bad as we thought. Maybe we should help them out." If they were going to do this, it would have happened long ago.

Sorry, call me pessimistic, but we are responsible for the condition of that country (consider that we were instrumental in bringing Sadam Hussein to power in the first place), and we haven't done anywhere near the quality of job we should have.

So it doesn't matter what adventure you choose here. It looks like all roads lead to Rome...burning.

Preventative vs. Preemptive

TOTN yesterday discussed the difference between a preemptive war and a preventative war, along with the morality and the international law regarding these practices. Preventive war is when you go to war against a nation in order to prevent something happening later, but there is no imminent threat. A preemptive war is when there is an imminent threat and you strike first to avoid too many casualties. Evidently, the U.S. has a long history or preemptive war, and this is not against international law, whereas preventative war is against international law. There is little question in most peoples’ minds about the morality of a preemptive war, whereas arguments abound regarding preventative wars. For example, some assert that preventative action against Germany in the ‘30s when they re-militarized the Rhine-land would have saved the world a long and costly war.

So it seems that I am in violation of international law. I have a long history of preventative war maneuvers. I often will stop going out with someone long before it comes to a crisis if I am pretty sure I am not interested in them. Whereas, I am terrible at the preemptive thing. I will often ask someone out that one last time when it is pretty obvious that they are not interested, just to find out. So much for morality and international law in my dating life.

Now on to what you are all waiting for: A____ called me back last night a few minutes after I left a message. I assume she was screening her calls and checked with her friend _e___ to see if I was psycho or not before she called me back. She said she had been to the play already, but would be willing to go again since she has to do a report on it. So, even if nothing else works out, at least I will have helped someone in their schooling.

Maybe that will make up for the immorality of any preventative measures that I may take in the future.

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Datecrusher Update

So I gave up on the analyses and decided to just go for the gusto. I got A___'s number from _e___, M_____'s roommate, and gave her a call.

Yep. She didn't answer. I left a message. We'll see if she calls back anytime in the next millenium.

The biggest problem is that I don't really have any other time to do something with her than Saturday night, so I can't really ask anyone else out until I hear from her.

Maybe this is what Brother Brigham meant when he said we would get ourselves "rich and fat and busy, and kick ourselves down to H____." Oh wait, he said Lazy instead of Busy. I was pretty close.

Guitars Unplugged Is The Devil Datecrusher

Both L_____ and J_____ turned me down today because they are going to Guitars Unplugged, Saturday. Maybe they're going together.

Seriously, how am I supposed to learn not to analyze when my analyses are pretty much spot on?

Neither of them even said anything about wanting to do anything any other time. So that's pretty much it for both of them. I've done my part. Now let's see what they do. Meanwhile, I move on to a pasture that I hopefully won't get kicked out of so quickly. But first I have to find it.

The funny thing, is that it doesn't even hurt. I don't feel bad about their rejections. I've been rejected way too many times. Mostly I'm just irritated that I bought tickets to the play and I still have no one to go with. How annoying is that? This has happened a lot lately. Any time I actually plan ahead and get tickets, I end up scrambling at the end after getting rejected by five or six girls. One time I got up to eight. Maybe I'll beat that record this weekend.

I've thought about asking C_____, but she already said she has a performance every weekend between now and the end of the semester. So she probably has a performance that night, making asking her out futile. Plus she is the former roomate of B_____, my latest, greatest failure. That would be wierd. And she is 8 years younger than me, and I don't really know if it is worth the hassel hurting her.

I could ask out M_____ but she is already bitter that I don't like her, and this would be a wierd thing, throwing her off, and making her end up hating me more.

I could ask M_____'s roommate for the number of A_____, whom I met briefly at their place Sunday, but she has a performance next Wednesday that I am sure she is frantically trying to prepare her cast for. Plus there would be the whole drama of me asking out a friend of M_____'s roommate, and then it could also come back to J_____ who is in our FHE group.

The set-up mill is working, but slowly, so there's no possibilities there for this weekend. Maybe I'll just go to the WSC tomorrow and ask a random girl. Or I could give the tickets to my roommate and go hide under a rock.

How frustrating.

Monday, March 20, 2006

Axioms

Commenting on a friend's blog tonight, I found myself suddenly spouting axioms like a cliche fountain. I think I thought I was some kind of guru. But I found myself desiring to broadcast my code of life to the world (via my blog with a readership of 5+or-2 loyal family and friends). Thus, these are some of the beliefs that govern the way I live and interact with others. In no particular order:

Axioms

  1. People are more resilient than we think.
  2. We play a lot smaller role in people’s lives than we think.
  3. You are the only person who has to be around you 24 hours a day, so play to your most loyal fan: make sure you entertain yourself.
  4. Be your number 1 fan.
  5. You know exactly the right information to make the best decision possible right at this moment.
  6. You are a valid person.
  7. People interact with you because of who you are, so don’t try to be someone different.
  8. Everyone is pretty much doing the best they know how.
  9. You don't necessarily know what is best for another person.
  10. Be you and let your personality shine through.
  11. Find ways to do things that are in harmony with your personality.
  12. You have as much worth as anyone else.
  13. You don’t have any more worth than anyone else.
  14. You have a valid perspective.
  15. People around you have valid perspectives.
  16. Find the truth in others’ perspectives.
  17. Listen.
  18. Work hard.
  19. Pray hard.
  20. Study hard.
  21. Play hard.
  22. Have fun.
  23. Relax.
  24. Sleep.
  25. Exercise.
  26. Eat.

Feel free to tell me yours. I may even adopt or adapt.

Battlefronts

I threw the analyses out the window last night and called L____.

Her phone was turned off. I didn't leave a message. I don't think she will see that I called. I haven't had much luck with the phone and L_____, so I am resorting back to what has worked. I emailed her this morning inviting her to go to a play and maybe climbing on Saturday. The climbing is iffy since I don't know yet if my toe can handle it.

Besides email being more successful than phone in the past with L____, I decided to do the email thing because I think I can sound a little more relaxed and witty through email than on a random phone call. I think talking to them in person is the best, but when that isn't possible, it totally depends on your relationship with them. Which is why I chose to go with the email this time. She may feel that the phone is a bit too much.

Oops. Looks like I bridged into analyses again. Oh well. I don't think it's possible to talk about it and not analyze it. Possible, maybe, but really boring. So, we'll see what happens.

In other news, I met a woman last night who was somewhat interesting. I felt restricted in trying to get to know her, though, since I met her at an apartment of M_____, who I am sure is bitter about me not liking her. Then I saw the new woman again briefly at the apartment of J____. I guess it feels a little lecherous to be outright pursuing another woman in the presence of all the roommates of the women who are interested in me at the moment.

And my friends down in Atlanta want to set me up with the daughter of their grandchildrens' piano teacher. They are of another faith, but the daughter is LDS, so they thought there might be some possibility there. Sure, why not? I'm flattered, as always that people want to set me up with people. I think it shows that they care about me. It's a very caring gesture. And I always like meeting new people, although I feel somewhat like a gambler going on so many blind dates. But that's an issue for another post.

Sunday, March 19, 2006

Update

I went out with J_____ last night. She's a nice girl; a little timid. We had some good conversation, but it was a little forced at times. I guess I like a little more spunk in women than she was showing. I'll give it some time, though. Maybe she's just shy. I'm definately not motivated to push harder for a relationship of any kind.

At the same time, I am trying to get my mum to set me up with a woman she knows in Orem. Initial descriptions sound interesting. She sounds talented and smart. Two things I like. She plays the piano, which I love. So why not?

Meanwhile, I'm trying to decide when to call L_____. I have to remember not to analyze this one too much.

However, in the past when I have tried not to analyze, and just go with what I wanted to do, I always ended up calling too soon. I don't know what it is about women, but in my (vast :) expereince, they get freaked out if you call them before unknown set amount of time has gone by. I was just told this week that this set time is three days. The three day rule, someone called it. I had never heard of that before.

How about it, women? Is there really a three day rule? It seems to me the rule women actually operate by isn't so hard and fast. Sometimes, it seems more like a three week rule.

The way I figure it, the more the woman likes you, the sooner you can call, and have it not wierd her out. The less she likes you, the longer you have to wait before she thinks you are desparate and scary.

The other question I am running up against, is: what if either J_____ or L_____ finds my blog?

That would be a hillarious adventure. Someone could make a movie about it. Maybe I should write a book about it. I could publish chapters on my blog. That would be fun.

Oh wait, I'm already doing it. It's called my life. Hope you enjoy it.

Saturday, March 18, 2006

Cure for the common cold!

Just what we always needed! I've found the cure to what's ailing us! Check it out:

http://podstar.homestarrunner.com/

Strong Bad emails and Teen Girl Squad podcasts! What could be better than that? Now all I need is a video ipod.

Friday, March 17, 2006

Addiction

Flipping through the channels today, the only interesting thing I found on the tube was c-span coverage of the Senate Judiciary Committee. They were discussing the problems we are experiencing in this country with oil companies. Evidently, since 1991 or something, the five major oil companies have gone from owning about 25%-30% of the nation's shares of oil to over 50%. And they seem to be engaging in cooperative actions to price fix and under sell the small-time competition. Also, last year, Exon-Mobile, the biggest of the oil companies posted the largest profits ever for any company in the United States. Yet consumers are paying more for oil and gas than ever before, and people are being forced to survive the winter without heat because they can't afford to heat their house and eat. It doesn't take much to begin believing that something needs to be done.

Evidently Senators on the Judiciary Committee felt the same way. I was impressed by the proceedings of the committee. Evidently, there was bipartisan support for a bill aimed at changing the anti-trust laws and heading towards solving this problem of our addiction to oil. This bipartisanship is nice for me to see. They just aren't doing anything drastic enough to fix the oil problem, in my opinion. But I'm sure my drastic measures would create economic havoc and not be feasible. As much as I hate to admit it, the Judiciary Committee is probably going about it the best way they can.

Tragedy

I don't know how it happened, but I sprained my left big toe and my right thumb yesterday.

I know when it happened. It was on the landing after going off the one little cliff they have at Sundance. It was a little baby cliff, but I didn't back up far enough. I had to really launch myself off the edge just to clear it, but I didn't have enough speed to fly far enough and land in the soft snow further down. Instead I did a little wimpy fall onto the icy slope below the cliff.

But really, how do you sprain your toe doing that? I don't get it. I mean, break a leg; dislocate a shoulder; something; but sprain a toe? One toe? Who does that?

The big tragedy, however, is: will I be able to climb next week if L_____ actually wants to go? I may go to squish my feet into my climbing shoes and yelp in pain. Or maybe I'll get the shoes on fine, but as soon as I try to toe a hold, I'll be on the floor, rolling in pain.

Or maybe I'm just a wimp and it will be fine by then. It's actually not so bad now. I think I'll be okay.

Tragedy averted.

Now back to those darned analyses.

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Analyses

Some have said I analyze things too much. I would definately agree with them. In fact, I've been doing way too much analyzing lately and it's killing me. I did four hours of analyses on Saturday, only to figure out later that I had done them all wrong. So Monday I redid them all. Another two hours down the drain, since I discovered that somehow one of the settings I thought was set, wasn't set and I ended up doing the analyses wrong again. Bummer. I definately analyze things way too much.

Now about the women in my life. L______ called today and left a message that she was busy and couldn't go climbing this weekend. But she said she definately wanted to go sometime, and that maybe next week would be better. Sounds like she is giving a different relationship a chance to work out, and keeping me in tow just in case.

Is that analyzing too much? Well, that's alright, because I just asked J_____ out for Saturday. J______ is another of the long line of women that I have gone out with in the past. But she's one of the recent ones. She's pretty mellow, which is definately offsetting me. That's probably a good thing. She's nice and smart and cute. We should have some fun.

However, I feel kind of guilty asking her or anyone else out when I am a little more interested in someone else. I think part of it goes back to the costly war going on. It's the war of my dating life, and there are innumerable casualties. In fact, I've considered making a memorial. That would be interesting. What I have to remember, is that behind all those numbers, there are real women with hopes and dreams and lives. Some are still struggling with the wounds. I wish it were not this way. Thankfully, some have recovered well, which gives me some hope that I don't have as much influence on their lives as I think I do.

So much for not analyzing too much.

Sunday, March 12, 2006

Ports World 2

It sounds like the study to examine port security in the U.S. came to unsettling conclusions. Surpirse! There is no current port security! And there never has been. Oh yeah, except in Seattle. What does this mean about the Dubai Ports World deal? In my mind, it says that we would be no worse off having Ports World run our security operations in the U.S. ports, than we are with most of the other operations already in place, including Maersk, the company bought out by Ports World.

Here's my reasoning: The study found severe security lapses at almost every port in the U.S. This has been going on forever. So effectively, all we have done is get another Arab country mad at us by telling them that they would decrease the security of our ports. It seems to me that they have a right to be mad. We've been sitting around with out proverbial pants down our entire lives. Yet as soon as an Arab company tries to conduct legitimate business in our country, we act all surprised, get extremely defensive and offensive, and tell them that we won't tollerate them being around us because they might pull down our pants.

Sounds like we are what most of the world already thinks of us: racist, bigoted, narcissistic, self-righteous, hypocritical pigs.

If I were of any other nationality, that's what I would think. Oh, wait, I don't have to be of another nationality, I do think that.

Friday, March 10, 2006

Replacement?

I went to the Museam of Art cafe today to get a lunch to go, and L____ was there with a guy. She tried to ignore me. Funny. It's also funny that I saw a friend first before I saw L_____ and went and talked to the friend for a while before noticing to my shock that L_____ was there as well. So maybe she was trying to pay me back. Or maybe she just didn't know how do deal with a slightly uncomfortable situation. Or maybe she isn't that interested. Or maybe.....Whatever the case, it was a random and interesting development. We'll see if she contacts me here. Whatever happens, I figure that if it was "meant to be" then a few more days don't matter anyway. So no pressure. I don't believe it was "meant to be" by any means, but maybe there's a possibility there.

In a somewhat related vein, I've been very annoyed by politicians lately and their reactionary and inflamatory rhetoric. The whole Dubai Ports World issue is such a stupid one. President Bush is the only voice of reason in the country it sounds like. Everyone else is alienating our allies and driving other Arab countries and peoples farther into their hatred of the U. S., and confirming their belief that Americans are biased against Islamic people. Party doesn't matter in this issue. Both Democrats and Republicans are jumping on a bandwagon trying to show everyone that they are interested in national security, when the actual results of their rhetoric will be to damage our national security. All because they want to be reelected this fall. Wisdom and moderation left the scene in Washington decades ago, if it was even ever there.

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Steaming

I really gotta get to bed.

But before I do, I can't keep quiet about one thing. It seems we are destined to never live down the negative stereotypes of BYU. This year, no women are even running for BYUSA President or Vice President, yet apparently 90% of the candidates' campaign staff are women.

All criticism of the usefulness of these trophy offices asside, are there no women out there willing to step out of the shadow of the unenlightened past? Yet they are willing to stand there in their best dress, holding a poorly painted, ugly sign, with non-matching colors in an attempt to attract* voters. Shame on the women for not having a little gumption themselves. And shame on the men for using them yet again as has been done for millenia. I'm angry and ashamed at the implications of this blatant symbolism.

*And yes, I did mean this as well.

Good Night.

Monday, March 06, 2006

Resolution

She called. She says she was working last night. LIKELY STORY! :)

So I met her at noon, gave her back her snow pants, and loaned her my book. I wish that I could have talked to her more, but she had class to get to. And I don't know if she wanted to talk or not.

The plan from here is to let her be for a week or so, to give her time to believe that I'm not desperate. I'll see if she contacts me before then. And I'll go out with other people so I'm not just stewing about it. Next week sometime, I'll see if she wants to go climbing. That should be fun. I think she wants to do that at least.

Part 2

I called L____ last night and she didn't pick up. Probably with another guy. Anyway, I left a message that I had the book and her snow pants and we could arange a drop-off. I thought it was a fairly non-pressured message, but afterward, I still wondered if it was too much too soon. I thought she had a fun time, but I could have been wrong. She didn't return my call last night. We'll see what happens today. I won't be contacting her again for a week or more if she doesn't contact me. That would be a pretty sure sign, I think.

Anyway, I have lots to do today. Check out "Worst Weather Ever"'s blog (in my links section) about President Bush playing cricket in Pakistan. It's pretty funny. It's even more funny because I'll bet President Bush didn't know the rules for cricket, so he thought he was supposed to run when he got hit with the ball, like in Baseball, but the news media has interpreted it as him posturing and threatening the pitcher. Either way, it's hillarious, and Worst Weather Ever is correct in saying, "good thing it was just a tennis ball, not a cricket ball."

That's it for now.

Sunday, March 05, 2006

Romance?

Is is romantic for your date to be afraid an avalanche will come down and burry you all? Or is she just trying to get a little comfort from her date? At any rate, last night was a lot of fun for me, and I think that L___ had a good time too. We talked constantly. We have a lot in common. And sledding down a long track at night in the mountains after hiking a half mile is a lot better than usual sledding excursions. She said she doesn't like the threat of death and dismemberment that comes with the usual short, steep sledding hills. I agree.

Anyway, I was more nervous for this date than I have been in a long long time. I actually thought she was out of my league. I asked her out thinking that there wasn't a chance; that she was probably dating someone, or thought I was creepy, or that she had plans, or something, anything. But she surprised me by saying she thought it would be fun. Who would have thought?

And when I randomly* met her earlier saturday at the store, she seemed pretty excited to see me and talk to me. That was flattering and surprising. It was fun.

*There have been a lot of "random" occurances with her and me. Uncanny, I should say, the way she came to the research meeting just after I had received an email about a possible study at New Haven, and she had just started working at New Haven, where I used to work.

Uncanny, and slightly irrie as well, how, when I explained my worst nightmare from childhood, she was surpised and said I had just described her worst nightmare from childhood that she had never been able to describe.

Uncanny, and interesting as well, how she has won multiple passes to The Quarry in the last year and has come to decide that climbing is something she really enjoys, has been pushed towards by fate, but doesn't have the gear, and would like to go climbing with me.

Uncanny? Perhaps.

But the thing I find most interesting is her major of making documentaries. That is so cool. I want to see some of the stuff she has done. Hopefully that will come in time.

Friday, March 03, 2006

Tired

I only have four essays left to grade out of the 130 + pages of essays I had to grade this week. I don't know what I was thinking last year when I created this assignment. I'm so tired. I don't want to do the last essays for a while. I just want to sit and veg. for a while. But I have so much to do. Man. I need a nap.

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Averted

My existential crisis is over. Or at least it's safely subsided to just a whimper. I was lost and bewildered for a few hours, but I am found again. I can go on with life and see where it leads from here. I haven't yet figured out the meaning, but at least I know where I am again. The view from here is interesting. It wasn't what I thought it would be, but it has it's advantages, for sure. Running this morning helped a lot too. Just getting out and doing something was great. Now I just have to focus on getting those cursed papers corrected. I can't believe how long it is taking me. This is insane. And I have too much else to do. I even got a letter saying the article that I submitted for publication last summer or fall was finally reviewed and given a "revise and resubmit." That's pretty good, but it means a whole lot more work for me to do to get it ready for resubmission. And I have to do it soon. Let alone the other four research projects I am working on. Okay, before I stress myself out, I'm going to work.

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Aftermath

I've had three big shocking disappointments or let-downs in my life. This is the latest one. The first two were women breaking up with me. This one has thrown me for a loop like I never would have imagined. I was so down yesterday, that it seemed I had found a new low I had never discovered before. I was so down that I thought the program director was just lying when she said she was excited about being matched with me. I was so down that I thought my friends were avoiding talking to me and running away from me every time I approched them. I was so down that I thought a woman I was about to ask out was doing all she could to stay away from talking to me, so I ended up not asking her out and thinking that I would pull back and let her make the next move. All very different attitudes and perspectives than I usually have. In some cases, it may be very good for me. But, I realized that it was natural after such a huge disappointment to feel down. I rode it out. Today I just feel midly sad. I'm sure I will come out of it fine in a day or so. I'll not worry about it and just move on with regular living.....Now to find me a date for Saturday...

Monday, February 27, 2006

Stunner!

To: [name surname] - Applicant Code #####

This message provides you with your Match result for the APPIC Internship Matching Program for internship positions beginning in 2006.

Congratulations! You have been matched to:

Training Site: UNIV OF UTAH NEUROPSYCHIATRIC

Program: PSYCHOLOGY INTERNSHIP

Program Code: 159711

Frankly, I'm stunned. I stared at my compter screen for five minutes just trying to take it in. I was convinced that Boston would be the place. I'm somewhat ambivalent about UNI. It has great facilities and offers a lot of diversity of experience as far as testing and therapy goes. I get a range of disorders and ages, all with an inpatient population that I am looking for. I am also close to BYU so I can continue my lines of research and keep more in touch with my dissertation chair. I'll be close to family and friends, too. But I really didn't expect this. I can't turn it down, but secretly, I was really looking forward to moving somewhere else. This will be interesting. Oh well. I guess I'll get a lot of skiing and climbing in next year.

Honestly, I'm still stunned. I don't know when it will set in. I really don't get it.

Crazy. What an interesting turn of events this was. It was kind of at the bottom of my list. After I had submitted my list, I kind of wondered if I should have even put it on there. Only Emory was lower, and I was just one of their backups to a backup. So if I hadn't put UNI on my list, I probably wouldn't have been placed. That's really kind of funny. I guess I'm not as good a candidate as I thought I was. This is a good eye-opening experience for me. I'm not sure what it all means, but I can guarantee that I'll be mulling it over from time to time until I finally figure out what I think about it. So stay tuned.

Sunday, February 26, 2006

Alta

Jo Jo and I went to Alta for a half day today. Lines were short, weather was great, snow was nice. Check out the pics below if you want, and vote on the best ones of the repeats. I won't keep them all. Jo Jo has learned a lot from the BYU ski class. I was impressed with her confidence and ability to take on anything and survive. Way to go, little Jo!
Middle of the day
Another middle of the day picture.
Another start of the day pic
end of the day
Start of the day

Friday, February 24, 2006

What have I done to myself?

I just graded papers for more than two hours, and I am only about a fifth of the way done. I would be completely upset with the assignment and the person who made it, but I'm the one who made it. My poor colleagues who teach the other sections have to do the same grading because of me. This is a great assignment for the students to learn and get feedback, but it is killing me to get it all graded. I would be upset, but it's all my fault. Be sure that I won't make this mistake again. I'm only going to have each student write one essay instead of two from now on. The only thing that made the grading doable was that I had the olympics on mute, so I could look up from time to time and take a break. Maybe it slowed me down a bit, but it kept me going too.

The best part of watching the olympics tonight is that I got to see Julia Mancuso from the U.S. win the Giant Slalom. It was amazing to see her ski that course in conditions that slowed everyone else down, and yet she made better time than anyone. It was even more rewarding for me because early in the games I saw an interview with her and a comperable interview with Lindsey Kildow, her friendly competitor on the U.S. team. Lindsey said winning was everything. Julia said that as long as she had a good time and tried her hardest, she was happy and felt successful. What a difference in attitude! I admired Julia for her attitude and wanted her to win.

Unfortunately, in her first three events, she performed well, but did not medal. Then came today. She won the gold! I knew it earlier today, but watching it, I realized that she deserved that medal just for her continued positive attitude and hard work. She was amazing. I love her attitude. Then, in the end, to see her excitement and her family and coaching staff's excitement, I was even more impressed. It was so genuine and refreshing. It was a great end to the olympics for me. I know that there is still tomorrow and Sunday to go, but I'm not that interested in the rest of the results. This was a great finish for me. Thank you Julia Mancuso for your refreshing attitude and performance compared to so many spoiled U.S. athelets. You would have won gold in my book without an actual medal, but you deserve this.

Olympics philosophy

I have to say, I've been watching the olympics pretty closely, and I think it is awesome that the Japanese woman, Arakawa, won the gold in figure skating. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a U.S. hater or anything, but I think that the world would be a better place if the Olympics weren't dominated by Western countries. If the Olympics are supposed to bring the world together, then it seems a little counterproductive to invite the world and then win all the medals and act like morons fighting over team stuff (e.g. Hedrick and Davis). It's like inviting people over to play video games, but they only get one chance and they're not as good so they get beaten or loose quickly and then you sit down to play a game that you know backwards and forwards, and you play for the next two hours while they sit there and watch. It just seems to be somewhat bad taste. So in my mind, the more medals won by countries outside of N.America and Europe the better. Even some of the small countries in Europe can win more medals. I just get sick of the U.S., Russia, Germany domination.

On the whole, I think the Olympics are wonderful and a great thing for the world. I would just like to see more people from Africa, Asia, the Arab world, S. America, and Oceana involved. And I would love for all U.S. atheletes to be good sports. But that's asking too much. We're spoiled brats.

Surrogate

It occurs to me that this blog may actually be a poor stand-in for a significant other in my life. I just got into the blog scene this week, and I already find myself having thoughts and saying, "I want to write that down...I could put that on my blog." I think those thoughts would be things that I would share with my imagined wife. I've gone without sharing those thoughts for so long, waiting for a partner to share them with, that now I find it very refreshing to have an outlet.

Blog away, Bog.

Of course, I don't exactly have much of a readership, and not really any dialogue, so it is a poor replacement for a warm, responsive body to talk to. But at least it's a replacement. I can even sometimes imagine that someone out there is going to read it.

Anyway, in an interesting contrast to the blog, I just talked with my Dad and Mom on the phone and let them know the news about the internship. There's the responsive body. And it was more fulfilling to tell them and get their responses, compared to the open-ended nature of the blog: my precious thoughts hanging out there in cyberspace; floating around, waiting for someone to glace at it and hopefully say, "oh, what a pretty constelation of words and ideas. I'd like to see this again and see how the constelation changes with time." But for now, it's just hanging out there.

And it occurs to me that this is somewhat like my dating life as well. I sometimes feel that I am floating out there in daterspace, waiting for someone to glace up and say, "oh, what an intriguing constelation of thoughts, qualities, and behavior. I would like to learn more about it and see how it changes with my influence." Of course, the guilty little part of me reminds me that plenty of women have done this, and I have rejected so many.

Maybe I'm more like a spinner lure, trolling along for fish. But not just any fish will do. I'm in some inexplicable fishing competition with unknown competitors, and I'm catching and releasing like a mad man, just hoping that through statistical sampling, I'm bound to catch the rare, prize fish.

Okay, somehow my metaphore shifted from me being a spinner to me being the fisherman. Does that reflect the Western Philosophical influence in my thinking: I've always got to be in control, not just an item in a bigger scene. And another somewhat disturbing implication to that metaphore: can anyone say "Catch 22?"

So I'm stuck streaming my consciousness onto an electric screen instead of sharing my intimate thoughts with someone I know. I hope you as my immagined reader appreciates the fascinating postition that technology allows us to assume in other peoples lives.

Now back to reality.

Anticlimactic?

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Thursday, February 23, 2006

Couldn't Sleep

What if I do get placed at Boston? That would be a grand adventure. I would be working at the Boston Univerisity Medical Center as a Psychiatry and Psychology Fellow. I would also be a Psychology Fellow at Boston Univerisity. I would also officially be a Psychology Intern with The Center for Multicultural Training in Psychology. Me. Multicultural. Me. Mister average, middle-class, white, 29 year-old, single, white, heterosexual, christian. Multicultural? Well, it's possible, even probable, that they have never had a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in their program. So I might actually represent a culture that they have not to this point had represented in their program. That seems like a huge responsibility to me, to represent The Church in my words and actions while working there. Oh yeah, that's going to be an adventure. Undoubtedly, I'll have some learning to do.

Okay, second try at sleep.

Almost There

I find out sometime tomorrow morning. I hope my email works! That would be a fine day for the BYU email system to decide to be inconsistent. I'll probably check before running at 5:30 am and then after I get back as well. I expect it will come while I am running. I just have to remember that I only hear whether I got a spot, not where it is. That comes on Monday. It's a lovely wait. Well, 5:30 in the blessed am comes early, and I expect another freeze fest up the canyon, so I probably need to get some sleep to prepare.

Ciao.
Somehow, this didn't get published with the other Snowbasin pics. I don't yet know how to edit the order of the posts, so it goes in here. But I thought it was a good one.

Still Waiting

T: Minus 1 day, and counting. I'm a little excited to see where I go. On the other hand, part of me is also hoping that I don't get placed. If I don't, I would have a year to finish my dissertation, do more research, hopefully get more publications, work with more clients, teach more, and make myself look like a better candidate for internships. So I would probably get a better one next year. Plus, I would have a lot of time to play. I couldn't complain about that, especially since I have no family to take care of. I really don't need to be rushing my career along. But if I happen to get placed, that will be a good adventure too. And I can always take a year after intership to finish things up if that is needed (although I don't think it will be necissary).

So that's the current state of my mind regarding internships. We'll see what actually happens. I really think that I'll be going to Boston. That would be a grand adventure.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Boston

Below are pictures of my trip to Boston for an internship interview. I went the third week of January. It was interesting weather. But despite the storm, I loved the city. It was a great place. I love the justaposition of modern city with old historic sites mixed in. I rented a car at the airport and drove into the city. It happens to be a crazy city for driving, but I found my way around. It was a fun challenge to navigate.

First Stop: Boston Temple.
James Townsend's tomb at Kings Chapel Burial Ground. Am I related to this guy? I seem to remember his name for some reason.
The North Chapel
Boston Temple. I thought the white steeple looked kind of out of place with the rest of the temple. But it is a beautiful temple otherwise.
Monument at Bunkers Hill
Old cemetary at night in downtown Boston. I think I speak for us all when I say, "Creepy."
Another Cool Headstone.
Paul Revere at the North Chapel. By the way, what ever happened to that one guy who rode nine-tenths of the way?
Cool Headstone.
Bunkers Hill Monument
Boston from the top of the Bunkers Hill Monument
Self Portrait at Kings Chapel Burial Ground - I'm almost dry after walking in a downpour for an hour.
Boston Temple.
Kings Chapel Burial Ground - Very Historic

Swell Hike

The following are pictures from a hike in the San Rafael Swell at the beginning of the year. It was great getting almost lost, wandering around for a while. Getting back later than we wanted. Wandering in the desert is one of life's many joys.
Getting ready for the hike. Rulon, Bren, Dennis, and my shadow.
One of those mountain landmarks we were searching for for a while.
dropping down off the plateau.
everyone's happy to find it.
I like the big stones.
pictographs at the start of the canyon.
cool rock.
awesome hike.
are those the La Sal's?
Heading down the canyon.
another view
I like how the rock dives into the sand here.
another view
this one's pretty good.
I like this one the best.
after the hike.

Snowbasin

The following are pics from Friday's trip to Snowbasin. It was cold but good. I was just starting learning how to post to the blog, which is why they are out of order. It's a good learning experience, but I'm too lazy to delete them all and start over to do it right. I'll just go on from here and do better with other posts.

-End of the day.
Another view.
I entered the bowl at those trees.
again
Ogden and The Great Salt Lake
It's cold up here.
This is a nice view of the ridge.
glowing sky-needs work
Worth a little hike for the skiing off the edge.